This is a great article that explains the close bond between mother’s and daughters. I pray my daughter understands this one day. I also pray that she realizes what has been stolen from us. Her father and those who helped him literally tear us apart need to be held accountable.

http://elitedaily.com/women/30-signs-your-mother-is-the-best-person-in-your-life/

M.I.A.

Just a quick update. I know I have been M.I.A. this month. I have not been blogging much lately. Trial did not go too well. As expected with Judge Nazaratien. It was just another mom-bashing session where only I was grilled to no end and harassed. The ex-husband, as always, sailed thru with not even one question asked of him by the Judge. It was just yet another sideshow in the Circus that is Judge Nazaratien’s “family” courtroom. This man made up his mind from day one. We, of course, ran out of time as always. No closing arguments, no nothing. Some trial that is. Most of my issues were not even addressed. As usual. Judge already asked my ex-husband’s lawyer to draw up an order. Therefore, his mind was made up before he even left the bench. Obviously, he has no plans to review case law or anything else before ruling. Case law which he has been in violation of for the past 2 years. Thinking he would admit his legal error and right his wrong are a joke. His mind was made up in a short hearing in September 2012 and he has never cared what happened to my daughter or me ever since. My ex-husband can lie under oath and alienate me all he wants. He is a police officer and treated with kid gloves by the totally biased and inappropriate Judge Nazaratien. The bias has been sickening. The demeaning manner in which I have been treated for 2 years by Judge Nazaratien has been nothing short of disgusting and appalling. Trust me when I tell you that it is ALL about the money. $$$$$$. I have been trying to pick myself up and put the pieces of my life and heart back together. Not going so well at the moment. I also had a bad fall this week which left me with a trip to the ER and a black eye. I WILL be back. Just need a little time. My prayers go out to all of you. Praying for peace, understanding, clarity, favor, truth, love, and justice for all of us alienated parents and our children.

 

ARE YOU BEING GASLIGHTED???

ARE YOU BEING GASLIGHTED???

 

 

Silence is complicity. Parental Alienation is emotional child abuse and domestic violence (control, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, isolation, bullying, gaslighting, narcissism, hate).

Silence is complicity. Parental Alienation is emotional child abuse and domestic violence (control, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, isolation, bullying, gaslighting, narcissism, hate).

Simple as that!!!!

Parental Alienation. Child Abuse. Domestic Violence. Bullying. Narcissism. Sociopath. Corruption in Family Courts. Biased Judges. Abuse of Power of Discretion.

PARENTAL ALIENATION IS EMOTIONAL CHILD ABUSE

MY DAUGHTER SHOULD NOT GET IN TROUBLE FOR SHOWING ME LOVE. CHILDREN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN THEIR PARENTS.

Wishing a peaceful and stress free day to all of the alienated mom’s out there tomorrow.

Dear Alienated Mom’s

I can’t and won’t wish you a Happy Mother’s Day because I know that it won’t be. It can’t be a happy day when your child is being kept from you unjustly by a spiteful and hateful ex-husband. No-one can or should expect us to be “happy” about this especially on Mother’s Day – a day meant to celebrate moms all over the world. Especially when most of us will probably not see or even hear from our children.

But what I will wish you is a day that is as peaceful and as stress free as possible. For myself, I am just hoping to actually get a few hours of sleep tonight. I have not slept in weeks. Feel like I am coming down with a cold. Probably just run down. Just can’t seem to turn my brain off these days. Parental Alienation is sheer torture for me. I have a very long drive tomorrow – job interview and court stuff to take care of – and I am just so exhausted.

Praying for peace, strength, love, forgiveness, understanding, clarity, compassion, guidance, tenacity, resolve, insight, support, abundance and justice for all of us. Thank you all (alienated moms and dads) for being there. No-one can understand the pain the way we can.

Love,

K

Loving and capable mothers CAN and DO lose their children to Parental Alienation

Loving and capable mothers CAN and DO lose their children to Parental Alienation

Per Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D.

In my experience an alienating parent needs three things: (1) motive to undermine the child’s relationship with the other parent, (2) access to the child, and (3) skillful use of alienation strategies. These are not the sole purview of either gender.

In my particular case, I believe we can definitely check off all 3 items on this list. (1) Vindictive Ex-Husband who wants to “get me back” for everything he perceives I have “done” to him the past 15 years. Ex-Husband got woman he had been dating for 5 months pregnant and had to marry her. Neither he nor new Step-Mom wanted him to continue paying me child support. (2) Full access to child thanks to a biased Family Court Judge who did not follow Florida case law and made decision based solely on finances which is not legal. A Judge who has already been in the news (ABC Action News published a story on him) for treating women domestic violence victims horribly in the courtroom. Demeaning and embarrassing them just as he has done to me every time I set foot in his courtroom. A Judge who makes you feel re-victimized, bullied and abused every time you are before him. In addition, this Judge showed extreme bias to Ex-Husband who is a Law Enforcement Officer. (3) Ex-Husband is a Veteran Vice and Narcotics Law Enforcement Officer who is highly skilled at lying for a living, interrogating violent criminals, bullying and intimidating. Step-Mom is a recently Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist at a Christian Counseling Center and has used her skills to coerce and manipulate my vulnerable daughter. Ex-Husband and Step-Mom took my daughter to Step-Moms Friend, Former Co-Worker / Former Business Partner for so-called “counseling” (aka: brainwashing) right after the parental kidnapping of my daughter. Said Counselor / Friend / Former Co-Worker / Former Business Partner subsequently wrote a letter to the court for her Friend / Former Co-Worker / Former Business Partner / Step-Mom painting me in a bad light even though she refused to allow me to participate in said counseling.

 

 

Mother’s Day Message from An Alienated Dad to Alienated Moms:

Mother’s Day Message from an Alienated Dad to Alienated Moms: “An early Happy Mother’s Day to all Moms. I’ve said it before but it is worth repeating —please remember that parental alienation is not about you or what kind of mother you were/are. Alienation is all about the alienating parent’s unresolved emotional issues and the unhealthy, co-dependent relationship that forms between the parent and child. So while I understand the pain of not hearing from your children on holidays, remember it’s not your fault! Do something you enjoy this Sunday and remember that you are great Moms.”

These words made me feel just a slight bit better about Mother’s Day.

GREAT NEWS!!! WONDERFUL JOB CONNECTICUT!!! FAMILY COURT REFORM IS COMING. JUDGES WILL BE RESTRICTED!!! POOR TRAINING HAS BEEN ACKNOWLEDGED. FAMILY COURT DRIVING PARENTS INTO FINANCIAL RUIN. PRAYING FLORIDA IS NEXT!!!!

GREAT NEWS!!! FAMILY COURT REFORM AND JUDGES RESTRICTED!!! POOR TRAINING ACKNOWLEDGED. DRIVING PARENTS INTO FINANCIAL RUIN. PRAYING FLORIDA IS NEXT!!!!

“On Friday, April 25, 2014, both houses of Connecticut’s legislature unanimously approved a bill that restricts judges in family court matters. Parent who have been unfairly denied access to their children, given restricted access and bankrupted by the court turned out in large numbers to testify in favor of the legislation. The legislation points towards fundamental changes in Connecticut’s family court system.”

 

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